BUT there is always a BUT...

Why can’t we have the ideal life? Free of worries..free of misery..free of pains? Why do we have to think about tonnes of things before doing anything? Why can’t we live only for ourselves? Why are we forced to do things that we don’t really want to get in to? Why can’t things run straight and simple? Just when you seem to think things are going right as they should, a but or a if creeps in. Just when you think that you have caught hold of reigns of life, it turns the other way round. Just when we think we have got answers to the questions of Life, Life changes the questions. Why does this happen? Why is this constant conflict going on within us?

Want to be Alone??? No probs...

There are these times in your life when you want to be alone. You make a shell around yourself and just don't want to get out of the it. During such times, no matter how much your friends pester you and insist you to get out of your carapace, there is something in you that will hold you back. It is the part of your life when you want to do a little introspection. The only good friend that you seem to have is yourself. You become irritable when you are in social gatherings; you shout at people, disagree with them all the time and basically create a negative aura around you.

In my opinion, it is not bad if you want to be alone. These are the times when you actually grow, intellectually. I agree that a person evolves with the society but at the same time some amount of soul searching is always required. It helps you develop opinions and thoughts and makes you a much more refined person. So the next time you want to be caged up in your room thinking and analyzing, go ahead. It will surely make some difference!!!

Why is forgetting someone so difficult?

If God gives me the option of fulfilling my one wish, I will probably ask him for an eraser with which I can erase the memories of the past. The memories that I want to forget, the memories which trouble me day and night, the memories which I curse the most. Why do we tend to give so much importance to these thoughts? Why do some people become so important in our lives that it becomes almost impossible to forget them? Why do some people just come and go and change your life forever? Why is it that some events change your life completely? In the end you feel as if your whole identity is shattered. You are no longer alive. Why? Why? Why?

I guess we all have the answers to these questions but the problem arises when it comes to following these solutions. Most of us are a bunch of emotional fools who waste away our time whiling over the past. The other person is not even bothered about how we feel, what we feel.

Never give undue importance to others. You are the master of your life and no one else. Just don’t let any one screw up your life. Ask God for that magic eraser everyday. He will eventually give you one and you will be able to forget your past and start a new journey in the future.