Tuesday, August 11, 2009

Why is forgetting someone so difficult?

If God gives me the option of fulfilling my one wish, I will probably ask him for an eraser with which I can erase the memories of the past. The memories that I want to forget, the memories which trouble me day and night, the memories which I curse the most. Why do we tend to give so much importance to these thoughts? Why do some people become so important in our lives that it becomes almost impossible to forget them? Why do some people just come and go and change your life forever? Why is it that some events change your life completely? In the end you feel as if your whole identity is shattered. You are no longer alive. Why? Why? Why?

I guess we all have the answers to these questions but the problem arises when it comes to following these solutions. Most of us are a bunch of emotional fools who waste away our time whiling over the past. The other person is not even bothered about how we feel, what we feel.

Never give undue importance to others. You are the master of your life and no one else. Just don’t let any one screw up your life. Ask God for that magic eraser everyday. He will eventually give you one and you will be able to forget your past and start a new journey in the future.

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  2. dont make someone a priority in your life if your just an option in theirs.though its easier said than done.someone once said; everyone is going to hurt you sooner or later, you just have to realize who's worth the pain :)

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